As long as you are here on earth, you are an absolute winner. So, congratulations! You are still in the game.
The bad feeling comes, when you compare with others. It is just a feeling, nothing else. Relax and be sure, you can not lose. If you consider this as a competition, than it is a competition with yourself. And avoid judging others. It is not important, what other people think about you. You are free when you don’t care about that. Free yourself of mental, emotional or physical slavery.
Yes, you might lose some friends, but this is O.K. Better standing alone in peace and freedom, as being manipulated through a person or a group. You are never alone! And you will attrac friends you deserve.
It is just a matrix we are playing in. And the rules of this big game are, we forgot how connected we are…and who we are… and where we came from.